Couple Matrix · 10 · 10 · 1985 & 11 · 10 · 1985

Your Couple Matrix

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Couple center 12 · The Hanged Man — Meeting 21 · 20 — Money 8 · 6

The five zones

What your Matrix says.

You can read the meeting in full here; for the other four zones you’ll find the beginning and what the couple reading contains.

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I · The meeting — A, B

What brought you together

I. The meeting

  • AThe World
  • BJudgement

The energy that made you meet and the start of the story, with its bright sides and the ones to keep an eye on. Useful even if the relationship hasn’t started yet.

Free to read A · 21 The World

People with the energy of arcana 21 are very open and extremely interesting. They consider the whole world their home. In these couples there are no limits in choosing a partner, neither by nationality nor by religion. What matters is that both have a similar view of the world and set common goals. They never impose their point of view, preferring to settle everything peacefully.

Getting to know each other and meeting

These couples like to spend their free time with people who share their ideas about life, both in reality and in the virtual world. They may meet on a hike, in a themed club, in language courses, on a dating site on social media or even in another country. They are very sociable and welcoming, and easily find a common language with anyone, so there are no difficulties at this stage.

Starting a relationship: pros and cons

These couples try to create relationships that are almost ideal, where the partners become a single whole. At first sight, their married life may seem utopian, but only they know how to truly love without conditions. Still, this approach to choosing a partner does not protect them from mistakes. People with the energy of arcana 21 tend to overrate their partner, and only when they face the harsh reality of life do they realize their mistake.

The positive side

  • Openness They are open to communication and find a partner who fully shares their ideals and their view of life.
  • Harmony Despite outward differences, there are few quarrels in the couple. They set global goals, sincerely trying to make the world a better place.
  • Adventures They discover the world in all its forms, travel a lot, and love nature and animals.
  • Union They live together for many years “heart and soul,” and many consider their bond ideal.

The negative side

  • Closed-mindedness They are rather closed people, used to defending their own ideas and imposing their own point of view.
  • Remodeling In these couples, the partners try to “re-educate” each other according to their own model.
  • Routine In the end, they have no common goal and find themselves buried in routine and daily problems.
  • Inactivity Dreams of a better life and the wish for change are not backed by concrete action. This couple is likely to part sooner or later.

The couple reading also includes B · 20 Judgement, and the other four zones.

Couple Matrix: The Handbook
Preview of the first printable worksheet

Eight A4 worksheets, five-zone charts, and the secret ebook Beyond the Five Zones.

PDF handbook

Couple Matrix: The Handbook

This guide helps you read the Couple Matrix you just calculated; it’s general, not personalized to your dates.

  • The 22 Arcana in the context of a couple
  • Five zones: Meeting, Nature, Tasks, Problems, and Money
  • Three complete case studies, from your two personal Matrices to the agreement you choose
$17.99

The PDF download link arrives by email right after payment.

Explore the book page to see what’s inside.

Four optional chapters

Four questions, four optional chapters.

The Knot, The Course, The Ring and The Nest explore your bond, direction, periods and family. Choose which chapters to add to the five zones of your couple reading. Each uses your dates; you can read a preview here.

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The knot of the mirrorThe recognition 9 · The Hermit

Why us?

The Knot Your karmic bond

Where your bond comes from: your two Karmic Tails, the couple’s tail and the point where they touch. For those who feel they’ve known the other person forever: kindred souls, twin flames, bonds that return.

The first chapter

The knot of the mirror

You have the same energy at the center, or in the same points of the two Matrices: that’s why you recognized each other so quickly. It’s the bond many call a soulmate, the one where you understand each other without explaining. But the mirror also shows flaws, and the other person’s are often yours. Arguments start when one sees in the other what they won’t accept in themselves. The work of this knot is to stop correcting each other and to grow, each on your own, side by side.

The recognition · 9 The Hermit

You recognized each other in silence. With the other you don’t need to fill the pauses: just being there is enough. The bond carries a memory of searching and shared solitude, and you often found each other when neither of you was looking. It asks you to respect each person’s space: the right distance keeps the recognition alive, the wrong one puts it out.

  • Your tail · 12-19-7The Warrior
  • Their tail · 15-5-8Family Passions
  • The couple’s tail · 9-6-15is read energy by energy
  • The mirrorsB, age 20: 10 Wheel of Fortune · G, age 30: 15 The Devil · C, age 40: 5 The Hierophant
  • The cureAt your center is 5 · The Hierophant, which sits in their tail.
  • The cureAt their center is 7 · The Chariot, which sits in your tail.

In the complete reading

  • Your two Karmic Tails, side by side: what each of you brings from the past into the couple
  • The couple’s tail: the karmic task you share
  • The mirrors and the cure: where you are alike and who heals whom
  • The work of the Knot: how to untie what keeps repeating

It’s added to the couple reading. It arrives as a PDF, within 48 hours.

Four optional chapters

All four, in the same volume as the couple reading.

The Knot, the Course, the Ring and the Nest are added to the couple reading: a single PDF written on your dates, with the five zones, the figures and the exercises to do together.

to read together

The couple reading

Your couple, explained zone by zone.

  1. I.

    The meeting — what brought you together

  2. II.

    The couple’s tasks — what you’re called to build

  3. III.

    The nature of the bond — what kind of bond yours is

  4. IV.

    The problems in the relationship — where you clash

  5. V.

    The couple’s money — how money flows between you

read on your dates
5 zones
yours to keep
PDF
at most, by email
48 hours

In the same volume, if you like

Your chosen chapters are included in the same PDF as your couple reading.

No add-ons: you’ll receive the couple reading with the five zones.

Your personal Matrix first? Calculate it here

Your two Matrices

Each of you has your own map.

The Couple Matrix adds these two together, point by point. Each can also be read on its own: who you are, where you come from, how you live, where you’re going.

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