Couple Matrix · 15 · 06 · 1990 & 12 · 10 · 1987
Your Couple Matrix
The five zones
What your Matrix says.
You can read the meeting in full here; for the other four zones you’ll find the beginning and what the couple reading contains.
What brought you together
I. The meeting
- AThe Hermit
- BThe Tower
The energy that made you meet and the start of the story, with its bright sides and the ones to keep an eye on. Useful even if the relationship hasn’t started yet.
Free to read A · 9 The Hermit
In a couple with the energy of arcana 9, relationships are not simple at all. It is hard to find a compromise and handle daily life. For those with the energy of the Hermit, the inner world, loved work and solitude are far more important. These people are ready to live alone and to build their own happiness in isolation. Finding a partner is not easy, but that does not mean there are no interested people. The difficulty lies in the fact that not every arcana 9 is ready to open up their inner world. It is essential that the couple share an alignment of life goals and a willingness to accept the other with all their flaws.
Getting to know each other and meeting
This couple may meet in an educational institution, in a library or at a seminar. The meeting may also happen during a trip or in another city. The couple may be of different ages; in this case, the age difference can be significant, but it does not create problems. It is possible that arcana 9 chooses one of their own students or teachers as a partner. For this couple, it is important that the partner be well educated and have a certain wisdom of life, otherwise it will be hard for them to understand each other.
Starting a relationship: pros and cons
Relationships with the energy of arcana 9 are marked by solitude, a natural state that brings more satisfaction and peace than sadness and a longing for company. On the contrary, thinking about marriage only causes worry. Family joys are often experienced as routine and usually happen under the influence of public opinion, the will of parents or circumstances.
The positive side
- Comfort These people feel so good alone that they rarely start a relationship with anyone.
- Encouragement Solitude does not frighten them, on the contrary, it inspires them and gives them strength.
- Difficulty adapting Finding a partner takes effort, but in the end they manage to overcome their difficulties and find someone who suits them.
- The role of mentor In the couple, one of the partners will surely be a mentor, and even if there is a big age difference, it should not be frightening.
The negative side
- Fear of loneliness These people greatly fear loneliness and do not feel at ease alone.
- Relationships to break the solitude They often enter relationships not out of great love, but to try to escape their loneliness.
- Emotional difficulties The relationship can be complex, with a certain coldness and detachment, typical of the Hermit, who struggles to express and share their emotions.
- The wish to hold on to the bond Despite their inner difficulties, people of arcana 9 try to keep the marriage going at all costs, clinging to any chance so as not to go back to living in solitude.
The couple reading also includes B · 16 The Tower, and the other four zones.
Four optional chapters
Four questions, four optional chapters.
The Knot, The Course, The Ring and The Nest explore your bond, direction, periods and family. Choose which chapters to add to the five zones of your couple reading. Each uses your dates; you can read a preview here.
Why us?
The Knot Your karmic bond
Where your bond comes from: your two Karmic Tails, the couple’s tail and the point where they touch. For those who feel they’ve known the other person forever: kindred souls, twin flames, bonds that return.
The first chapter
The knot of care
At the center of one of you there is an energy that sits in the other’s Karmic Tail: one carries as a natural gift what the other came to learn. It’s the bond where you feel healed, sometimes saved. It works as long as the one who gives doesn’t become a teacher forever and the one who receives a student forever. The work of this knot is to give back: whoever learns has to teach something in turn.
The recognition · 9 The Hermit
You recognized each other in silence. With the other you don’t need to fill the pauses: just being there is enough. The bond carries a memory of searching and shared solitude, and you often found each other when neither of you was looking. It asks you to respect each person’s space: the right distance keeps the recognition alive, the wrong one puts it out.
- Your tail · 12-16-4The Emperor
- Their tail · 15-8-11The Force That Wounds
- The couple’s tail · 9-6-15is read energy by energy
- The mirrorsNo identical points: you’re not very alike and you complete each other.
- The cureAt your center is 8 · Justice, which sits in their tail.
- The cureAt their center is 4 · The Emperor, which sits in your tail.
In the complete reading
- Your two Karmic Tails, side by side: what each of you brings from the past into the couple
- The couple’s tail: the karmic task you share
- The mirrors and the cure: where you are alike and who heals whom
- The work of the Knot: how to untie what keeps repeating
It’s added to the couple reading. It arrives as a PDF, within 48 hours.
Four optional chapters
All four, in the same volume as the couple reading.
The Knot, the Course, the Ring and the Nest are added to the couple reading: a single PDF written on your dates, with the five zones, the figures and the exercises to do together.
to read together
The couple reading
Your couple, explained zone by zone.
- I.
The meeting — what brought you together
- II.
The couple’s tasks — what you’re called to build
- III.
The nature of the bond — what kind of bond yours is
- IV.
The problems in the relationship — where you clash
- V.
The couple’s money — how money flows between you
- read on your dates
- 5 zones
- yours to keep
- at most, by email
- 48 hours
In the same volume, if you like
Your chosen chapters are included in the same PDF as your couple reading.
No add-ons: you’ll receive the couple reading with the five zones.
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Your two Matrices
Each of you has your own map.
The Couple Matrix adds these two together, point by point. Each can also be read on its own: who you are, where you come from, how you live, where you’re going.