Couple Matrix · 31 · 12 · 1929 & 08 · 01 · 1928
Your Couple Matrix
The five zones
What your Matrix says.
You can read the meeting in full here; for the other four zones you’ll find the beginning and what the couple reading contains.
What brought you together
I. The meeting
- AThe Hanged Man
- BDeath
The energy that made you meet and the start of the story, with its bright sides and the ones to keep an eye on. Useful even if the relationship hasn’t started yet.
Free to read A · 12 The Hanged Man
Arcana 12 in the Destiny Matrix symbolizes a deep spiritual connection in the couple, even if visually they may seem incompatible. You cannot say they are an ideal couple; you must be ready to compromise and to sacrifice something to keep the relationship going. Still, if it is a toxic relationship, where you lose more than you receive, there is no talk of sacrifices.
Getting to know each other and meeting
Getting to know each other and meeting can happen in very particular ways. Probably, one of the partners will have very different views of life. This might look strange and show itself in clothing or in behavior that departs from common norms. Their first meeting may take place in unusual circumstances, such as:
- Masked balls festive events with costumes
- Art exhibitions shows by avant-garde artists
- Rock concerts lively music events
- The zoo visits to special places
Starting a relationship: pros and cons
Arcana 12 makes you feel the need for a special person to take care of, receiving gratitude and love in return. In other words, these people are always ready for a relationship and are only waiting for the right partner. Here lies the main danger: not falling into dependent relationships, which happens fairly often.
The positive side
In this couple, even though the partners are very different, they feel very close. They support each other with positive emotions, make compromises and accept with gratitude and love all the sacrifices the other makes to improve the relationship. The life of this family may look very strange; friends may think they are out of the ordinary, but they love each other unconditionally.
The negative side
They may take a long time to find a partner, but in the end they decide to do it. They are ready to do anything to win the attention of the person they like. So they sacrifice almost everything they have to get reciprocity. Still, in the end they do not receive the gratitude and love they expect from their partner. Thinking they have not done enough, they keep sacrificing themselves. After going through several of these cycles, they can no longer get out of toxic relationships.
The couple reading also includes B · 13 Death, and the other four zones.
Eight A4 worksheets, five-zone charts, and the secret ebook Beyond the Five Zones.
PDF handbook
Couple Matrix: The Handbook
This guide helps you read the Couple Matrix you just calculated; it’s general, not personalized to your dates.
- The 22 Arcana in the context of a couple
- Five zones: Meeting, Nature, Tasks, Problems, and Money
- Three complete case studies, from your two personal Matrices to the agreement you choose
The PDF download link arrives by email right after payment.
Explore the book page to see what’s inside.Four optional chapters
Four questions, four optional chapters.
The Knot, The Course, The Ring and The Nest explore your bond, direction, periods and family. Choose which chapters to add to the five zones of your couple reading. Each uses your dates; you can read a preview here.
Why us?
The Knot Your karmic bond
Where your bond comes from: your two Karmic Tails, the couple’s tail and the point where they touch. For those who feel they’ve known the other person forever: kindred souls, twin flames, bonds that return.
The first chapter
The knot of care
At the center of one of you there is an energy that sits in the other’s Karmic Tail: one carries as a natural gift what the other came to learn. It’s the bond where you feel healed, sometimes saved. It works as long as the one who gives doesn’t become a teacher forever and the one who receives a student forever. The work of this knot is to give back: whoever learns has to teach something in turn.
The recognition · 9 The Hermit
You recognized each other in silence. With the other you don’t need to fill the pauses: just being there is enough. The bond carries a memory of searching and shared solitude, and you often found each other when neither of you was looking. It asks you to respect each person’s space: the right distance keeps the recognition alive, the wrong one puts it out.
- Your tail · 21-4-10The Oppressed Soul
- Their tail · 15-8-11The Force That Wounds
- The couple’s tail · 9-3-21The Overseer
- The mirrorsH, age 50: 4 The Emperor
- The cureAt your center is 11 · Strength, which sits in their tail.
- The cureAt their center is 4 · The Emperor, which sits in your tail.
In the complete reading
- Your two Karmic Tails, side by side: what each of you brings from the past into the couple
- The couple’s tail: the karmic task you share
- The mirrors and the cure: where you are alike and who heals whom
- The work of the Knot: how to untie what keeps repeating
It’s added to the couple reading. It arrives as a PDF, within 48 hours.
Four optional chapters
All four, in the same volume as the couple reading.
The Knot, the Course, the Ring and the Nest are added to the couple reading: a single PDF written on your dates, with the five zones, the figures and the exercises to do together.
to read together
The couple reading
Your couple, explained zone by zone.
- I.
The meeting — what brought you together
- II.
The couple’s tasks — what you’re called to build
- III.
The nature of the bond — what kind of bond yours is
- IV.
The problems in the relationship — where you clash
- V.
The couple’s money — how money flows between you
- read on your dates
- 5 zones
- yours to keep
- at most, by email
- 48 hours
In the same volume, if you like
Your chosen chapters are included in the same PDF as your couple reading.
No add-ons: you’ll receive the couple reading with the five zones.
Your personal Matrix first? Calculate it here
Your two Matrices
Each of you has your own map.
The Couple Matrix adds these two together, point by point. Each can also be read on its own: who you are, where you come from, how you live, where you’re going.